Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Going off the rails on a crazy train....

People are crazy. Some are good crazy...example MOI. And some are just plain screwed in the head, f'ed up crazy. I would like to dedicate my post today to them. Now, we all know someone like this. Usually we are lucky enough to be able to laugh at them at a distance. But what do you do when they are your family. And not just one member. Like the whole damn family. A bunch of crazy ass loons who band together to reek havoc on the life of the one semi sane member of the family. Okay...so maybe not semi sane. But at least the one with the good heart. The one that trusted that her family would be there for her in her time of need. The one that left everything that she knew behind, moved closer to them in the hopes of having a support system only to have them all turn on her like a pack of hyenas.

Families are supposed to be the ones that we can always count on. The ones with unconditional love. The ones that accept us for all our faults and love us in spite of them. Unfortunately, the families that we are born into, on many occasions, are the ones that do us the most damage. It's sad, isn't it. When a mother will tell you she doesn't understand why God put you into their family cause you just don't fit in. And a sister will try to have your kids taken away during the most difficult time of your life. So, my thought is this, and maybe I'm wrong, but I say SCREW THEM. You choose your family. You surround yourself with the people who love you and have your best interests at heart always. Friends, neighbors, distant relatives, and perfect strangers if that be the case. At the very least people who won't ball kick you in the tit. Which I'm sorry your boobie hurts but the image of that still cracks me up.



Anyway... You're a fighter. You're strong. And you have a lot of people who love you and your family. People who would stand in front of a bus for you. And people who would even take a kick to the boob for you. I'll always be by your side.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

I love you. and I totally need one of those hampsters that wears a diaper and sings kung fu fighting.

tom said...

I don't have much to offer Stacia, but I think you're a great person and it sucks that you have to endure so much opposition from such damaging sources. xoxo